Is there anything more unpleasant than sitting down on the toilet, only to discover that the seat was wet.
I hate that.
Wondering if the dampness on the back of your thighs is flush overspray or someone elses urine overspray.
Anyway I've a message for Lavender and anyone else who has cats that aren't feeling the love for each other. I was just flicking through a magazine (Good Health) and saw a question from a reader who has cats that don't get along. So here's the solution
Bach Flower Essences work very well for pets. It sounds like the tom could benefit from Willow for resentment and Holly for dislike, whereas the female needs a few drops of Centaury, for it's quiet gentle nature, and Aspen for anxiety and fear. Pop two or three drops into their drinking water or food. Give them a daily dose for about two weeks, then as required.